Letting Go of Self-Imposed Timelines

Why do we do this to ourselves?

I am someone who has always had a pretty clear vision for my life. It was all mapped out – when and how I needed to hit certain milestones – what I thought I wanted, and when it had to happen. There was a timeline for when I’d get married, have kids, visit Europe for the first time, and more).

As if we have control over these things.

I felt lost in my c…